I completely agree with Traveller here. The worst things anyone said to me were the "it wasn't meant to be" or "something was wrong with it" or even "you've got a little boy already..." Although well intentioned, very hurtful
how sad for your sister. sounds like you are a great support for her!
i hope people are sensitive towards her MC, a friend of mine got pg when we were young and was unsure of the whole thing, she MCed a few weeks later and some people actually had the nerve to say ''well, that solves your problem doesnt it, you didnt want it any way'' it was truly devistating for her. i hope she has supportive friends etc. sending hugs to her.
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