I've also had these comments. People get ****ed off when you have a baby that generally eats, sleeps etc with ease. I never get why people have to feel jealous or *****y instead of saying 'oh, that's awesome!'. I feel sad I missed out on my homebirth, but I don't go around to everyone that tells me their hb story bringing it down and wishing difficulties on others. we can't control or manipulate our kids into being anything, they'll come out how they come out, perfect in their own way