thread: (Vent) "I bet the next one wont be such a good baby"

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Bonbeach, Melbourne
    7,177

    I've also had these comments. People get ****ed off when you have a baby that generally eats, sleeps etc with ease. I never get why people have to feel jealous or *****y instead of saying 'oh, that's awesome!'. I feel sad I missed out on my homebirth, but I don't go around to everyone that tells me their hb story bringing it down and wishing difficulties on others. we can't control or manipulate our kids into being anything, they'll come out how they come out, perfect in their own way

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
    5,303

    You will have an awesome baby, a stunning-looking chubby-cheeked brilliant-smiling perfect feeder, and they will cry themselves to sleep with jealousy. I can almost guarantee it

    On the off chance that that doesn't happen, you'll be so well-equipped to handle it that you'll *still* have an awesome baby who smiles all the time, is bright and alert and chatters away and wins hearts everywhere you go. I can guarantee that

    *have to go and cry myself to sleep with jealousy now*

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    sydney
    211

    hugs

    my eldest dd has hip dysplasia, we had 4 months in a spica and 1.5 yr in a brace ( last year wasnt so bad as it was only night time wearing )
    the amount of times people would want to say. Oh your lucky, it could be worse.... so i feel your pain on stupid comments.