i have had a lot of stupid comments about it all too.. i had three "perfect" babies (lol) that slept all night and stuff and now #4 is being a "normal" baby and waking up during the night ect i get told it is my punishment for having 3 perfect sleepers.. I dont think people actually think when they talk about un born/ newborn babies. I recently became the aunty too a little girl and the minute we found out it was a girl my sister had a - "thats great she is going to be a spoilt little biartch" comment ... she wasnt even an hour old. I think some people should just not even bother talking hey LOL