it is a silly thing to say so don't let it get to you. my dd was a reluctant sleeper, and so i got opposite comments "hope this one is a good one" etc but there are lots of benefits in having a child who doesn't need a strict routine and is happy to stay out at night (as long as mum or dad is there). i struggle more in having a child who needs sleep, and settles better in bed because it is a new set of requirements that i have to learn.