We have a wonderfully easy going cruisey little bloke. Our last baby died at 41 weeks. I hate when people say "oh you are sooooo lucky to have such an easy baby". Yeah I am lucky but not in the big picture. Now my reply is "no I'm not lucky I am just a wonderful parent"
I also had one stupid person say the next one wouldn't be so good. I said there wasn't going to be a next one. The reply was "oh I guess you are too scared in case it's a nightmare baby". No actually we are too nervous to get pg again in case we lose another baby..........I didn't say this of course but what a tosser!