Hi there.

I had this issue with my DP after my 1st baby... It wasnt until we thought we couldnt have kids again that he realised he wanted another... At that time we spoke of several kids but now after #2 he's a bit reserved once again. I think men take a lot longer to see what they want.You said you;d like a third in 18 months to 2 yrs...Maybe by this time your DH will have a clear idea in his head about what he wants... I'd suggest enjoying the 2 for now and taking things slowly for now so you dont get your hope up for nothing.