i have two boys and a daughter. My daughter, who is nearly 13, has always been an independent soul, it wasn't until my eldest boy nathan was born, that she decided to become affectionate...lol. having said that, Nathan's nickname is ferret - because he ferrets his way in beside me, and I don't even notice that he has done it - still now at nearly 10. Laura makes a big production about having a cuddle. Aston, my youngest - 2 in November, has started to randomly go up and cuddle anyone of us. Which of course just melts us all.

Nathan is my tender hearted boy. He is at an age where he is wanting more masculine influences, but still comes and gives me a hug and a kiss, and will declare that he loves me. When I had a son I was overwhelmed - I didnt' know what to do with a boy. I had grown up with a sister. They were alien creatures, and I spent the first 18mths of Nathan's life, trying to figure out what made him tick. Then I realised that I was never going to figure it out (much like I can't figure out the male species in general!) and instead of worrying it, I should just enjoy the mystery that is him. Having sons has taught me and helped me appreciate that the male species does things and thinks incredibly different to us females.... and just because its different, doesn't mean its wrong - its just different.

Anyway, I think I have raved on enough now.

As Maz said, just the fact that you are thinking about what kind of mum you are going to be, means alot.

Congratulations on your blue bump - may the next half of your pregnancy speed on by, so you can hold him in your arms and fall in love with this amazing gift.