I laughed when I read this subject header - hubby and i found out we are 8 weeks preg on thur- we assured each other we would not tell anyone until we had reached the 12 week safety period- first person we saw happened to be a workmate of hubbys and he just blurted it out . and basically it was just rollercoastered on from there . I think in our case we wanted people to feel happy for us again after 2 failed preg last year - anyway you tell who you tell and I am hoping the more we discuss it the stronger the pregnancy. Mind you the people we have told early will think I have the gestation period of an elephant