Hello,

DH and I are expecting bub#2, we are both so excited and have waited and longed to have our little blessing..

When I was pregnant with DD, I couldnt wait to find out if she was a boy or a girl. When we found out we werent meant to share the info with family but DH told my mum indirectly. So we had to tell the rest of the parents. But this time I want to keep the excitment alive and not find out.. At the 12 week scan DH and I kept guessing 'o wait thats a willy no theres a v-jayjay'.

So yesterday we meet up with our OB who told me to book my 20 week scan. He asked if we wanted to find out the sex. DH said yes and I said not sure.. So in the car on the way home, I asked DH and he said he didnt really care.. I am still undecided...

I wanted to know but I dont want to know.. I want that experience of Its a .... when we are sitting there in the delievery room.. but It would make it easier to know.

Our families are very involed in our lives (culture thing) My mil in hospital with leukemia and I think her not knowing and just being excited about the baby gives her something to fight towards. My FIL has made is opinion known that he doesnt want us to find out. My olds are sweet they will go with the flow.. Actually I think My mum wants to know.. lol

Has anyone else gone through this, found out and then wished they didnt?? Or found out and will do it again? Any thoughts? Suggestions? lol I just want some advise..

Thank you in advance..