Big Hugs, LoriRae.

Firstly, let me say I think its really great that you are thinking about this and have put some safety nets into place to help you when your bubba arrives. Very wise thing to do.

I have found during this pregnancy that finding out what I was having, giving her and name and talking to her really helped me connect to my baby. I'm really excited to meet her and feel like I've shared a lot with her already - ridiculous things like asking my belly "What do you feel like for dinner? Shall we have some pasta?" But it helps make her feel "real".

HTH. Best of luck for a H & H 9 months!