When pregnant with Loren (DD2) I felt that I had to make a special bond with her whilst pregnant because I had already had 2 miscarriages and DH was not happy about us having another daughter. When Sara went down for a nap I used to lie down and imagine her growing and when my pregnancy advanced and I could feel her move I would still lay down and chanel my love towards her. This sounds kinda silly but it worked for me..
I have not done this once for this pregnancy mainly because time doesn't permit and I am really craving it.

Lori - You are doing an amazing job by seeking support and I think you already have a different attitude towards this pregnancy so you are already achieving your goal.