We have one frostie.

I can say that I hate the idea of donating the embryo, and then for the child to come back to me later in life and say "hey mum why didn't YOU carry me and raise me?" for which I would have no real answer. That's just me. I would feel like I gave up on my child.

It seems that most people's decisions depend on whether or not they consider the embryo's to be alive or not. Do you?

difficult times, I hope you get an answer you are comfortable with.