Hi there,

I have always wondered, and wanted to ask those who were able to move on from ltttc/AC - did you reach a point where you had had so many negatives, and battled so long that the idea of it ever actually REALLY working seemed fanciful and unrealistic.. impossible to imagine?

I ask because we have been going 4 years now, and the thought of it being US that gets that news.. it just seems like the same odds of winning lotto, you know? And that rarely happens to most people. Why would it be us?! And then I feel guilty because thats not positive thinking and I worry that being that negative is detrimental somehow... (Yes I overthink WAY too much).

I just wonder if you felt like that or if I need to change my thought patterns (I swear I try!). Thank you (and congratulations!!)