I guess whatever your beliefs with regards to religion and ivf and although it is a scientific/clinical process it still can't determine how well your body will respond to the drugs and still can't determine how many eggs will fertilize and the number of cycles it takes to produce a baby - these are all left up to mother nature. I think it is good to go in with an open mind and open heart as it is a tough journey both mentally and phsyically.

Just reading through everyones opinions on this issue we all have the same idea fundamentally and it really comes down to how you can reconcile it in your own mind and can fully accept any decision you have to make on this subject.

I guess that is where i am still at....how i can reconcile my actions. Thanks to you ladies i am definately one step closer to my decision