RE Car seats, With Campbell we had to turn him around just before 6 months because he was so long that he kept pulling on the straps that go over the top. He was only about 6kg. I agree it is better to leave them rear facing for as long as possible. Xavier on the other hand wont be going in the car that much he hates it and screams most of the trip. It is because the capsule is not upright enough and he is in pain thinking of trying the car seat when we get back.

We are off on our holiday on monday so will check in if I can.