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  1. #1
    barney Guest

    i too have been a slacko girls but im just sooo busy now dh is back at work.

    So big hellos to you all and i hope all is going great for you girls with all your beautiful bubbas.
    We are all great miss c is owning the house starting to yell at everyone shes so funny and god help the house if theres no one talking to her lol.she is so dam spoilt im finding it hard sometimes and she cant sit by herseLf any more pmsl.but apart from this she sleep all night has 2 very good sleeps of a day and is eating solids now like theres no tomorrow.we got a new ride on mower on the weekend and shes been rideing the mower with daddy omg she loves it pmsl.
    Anyways girls better get going miss grumpy bum is getting ****ty so best be off,i love you all and am missing all our chats.

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    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
    676

    Hi girls went to sleep clinic today and as hard as it is I hate to say it but the nurse was right I was picking Linc up way to early from his nap. Has anyone else gone to one of those? I hope it works for night too. But Linc was still having 3-4 naps a day nothing substantial and today with a bit of restraint from mum he's still in bed 1.5hours later (he did wake up but I didn't pick him up) Now I just need to share the "plan" with DH and Nanna.

    Smithy so glad Charlie is being a good girl. It is great when they are loud, has she found out her voice carries in the supermarket yet? Linc has but it is cute.

    Marcellus glad your taking it easy Until July, I love that attidude, "work is coming rest now"

    Neptune for holls they are great and wow 8 months flies

    Murph hope you have results now

    How are you going with this cold Saph? Linc is still rattly I hate winter?

    OK now what do I do. Linc is still sleeping tv is awful and I'm too tired to clean.

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    BellyBelly Member

    Feb 2008
    Perth
    615

    Green glad you got some answers from the clinic. Xavier still doesnt sleep well during the day, but up until he got sick slept fine at night. I have been just leaving him to cry oit out a bit lately, but Campbell will go into him if i dont. He climbs in the cot to cuddle him and give him his dummy. Sweet really but oh so frustrating. It is really hard when you have 2 because He will go down and then I will have to get him up to go pick Campbell up from kindy or something.

    As for the colds, Xavier had croup which is a new one for us. Campbell has never had it. they seem to just keep reinfecting each other. It's nice that they love each other so much but sharing the snot and bugs is a bit much.

    We have been really busy, but then who hasnt. Hope everyone is doing well.

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    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Far north Queensland
    371

    Hello,

    well thankfully it's been a quiet time on here so not too much to catch up on for a change. drum roll please...results in on thursday....all Jasmine's MRI and CT scans came back normal so looks like a green light for the cochlears. I still haven't had the answer to my appeal against medibank's decision not to fund us early but apparently the decision is in and if I didn't hear on Friday (nope), then on Monday I will know one way or the other. It's been a tense time.

    In other news, Jazzy and I travelled to Townsvillle on our own and her dad caught up with us on the weekend and flew home with us. Oh dear what a lot to arrange the morning of the flight there. Took Andy to the airport for his flight to Canberra for a conference, came home and got ourselves ready, then drive to catch ferry, caught ferry, drove to Adelaide, then for the most important bit, I forgot to go to the loo before arriving in the long term car parking and nearly wet myself trying to work out how to get from the car, struggle with lugggage and a baby in a sling, find out if and when the bus takes us to the terminal ...pheww. made it. Deep breath. My sister was texting stuff to me and all I could manage, was "I'm having a crisis, need to pee". Oh I honestly bow down to single mothers who have no choice other than to do everything on their own.

    Townsville was great. We went for a wedding, the wedding was cancelled (no sadness there), the groom went ahead with the reception (albeit a watered down version because most of the guests are his long time friends and we were all there for him). How awkward, the raving bride showed up so you can imagine the lead balloon effect that hung over the funeral, err, I mean...err.

    Meanwhile my sister arranged an impromptu Welcoming party so that the kids could all wear their wedding gear. They were meant to be in the wedding party so were a bit bummed that all their dum dum de dum practice was for naught. Anyway, we had a lovely little photo sesh with the kids and ate party pies so it was just perfect. We are not religious but my auntie made a christening gown when my sister's oldest was born 10 years ago and both of my sister's daughters have worn it at about 4 months old. it was such an honour and it fitted Jazz at 71/2 months.

    Lots to say but I'll tell you the milestone of the day. Jazzy ate a pancake. Firsts real solid, other than fingers of food and mash. She bit everything off and chewed it up and finally the dogs discovered what babies are good for as she dutifully broke bits off and fed them. Life is a dream at nearly 8 months, it just gets better every day.

    I've attached a huge heap of photos cos I just got FB working for me again. Scroll through very quickly if at all cos there are 71! they are for my family but for any of my BB family too.

    Take care and talk soon,

    xoxo

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    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    Yay on the green light for the implants Murph - fantastic news!

    i haven't been posting much - lots going on here and yet nothing really! am now working three looooong days a week - if DH is working, i have to be otu of the house at 6.30 (so up at 5.30), drop DD at mum's, and get to work by 7.40. thankfully mum has a cuppa waiting for me when i arrive so i at least get another drink before work. am now working til 5 - home at 5.30ish if DH at home, 6 or after if i have to get DD from mums. depends on whether the poppet demands a feed straight away or not! it's very tiring. next week i have to work four days so it's going to be a long week!

    DD had her 12 month needles yesterday (only a few weeks late - she had snuffles when she was first due to have them) - she was a trooper. screamed for a minute but got over it quick enough. she was getting lots of compliments for her attitude and being such a gorgeous little girl. she really IS gorgeous - such a lovely personality (albeit a bit strong willed) and she is just so friendly and beautiful. ahhhh gushy mummy moment! she is walking properly (little miss independent), talking soooooooooo much (short sentences like "who is it" "where's daddy" "what you doing" "i don't want to" lol) - the GP said she was significantly advanced for her age - which is fantastic for us to hear, and confirms for me that we'll have to keep extending her development. i don't want her to be like me and get bored and rebellious. need to work on ways to develop her social smarts as well as any academic smarts. she is young for me to be thinking about it, but mum has been talkign to me about how alike E and I are, and "OMG, you needed constant stimulation" (and social skills therapy cos i was so damn shy - still am!) - so i guess that's what i'm facing lol. my brother's two DD's are very much the same - needing art/craft/reading/writing entertainment all the time. so i guess it's somewhat to be expected. E's favourite toy at the moment is a noises book - she will find the pictures that go with the noises! ahhh extended gushy mummy moment! lol. guess i'm just proud that the GP noticed that she was doing really well for her age...

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    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    on the verge of greatness!
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    gloat away bg. that's what we are hear for and that's your job! you must feel soo proud of E oh my goodness I felt tired just reading about your day! how do you not just fall in a heap at 7pm?
    I reckon in 6 mths i'd feel ready to go back to work but only part time. HOwever we are getting posted from here a month after i'm supposed to go back from mat leave so I won't be going back. Fortunately we don't have a home loan or such and can afford for me not to work.

    murph - hope the answer comes tomorrow for you and glad the tests have been done and it's looking like things are getting sorted... finally! i hope. lol Had to laugh about the dogs discovering the advantages of a baby. My community health nurse helpfully suggessted that some people put down old shower curtains for solids... i was like "oh, we just let the dog in''. Cookie Monster now knows its dinner/lunch time and waits patientlly for the mess to ensue

    oh saph that just sounds so adorable - campbell comforting X. you must get a pic of that one

    green - yeah i was alwasy johnny on the spot with Ash whenever he cried but now I have learnt to leave him a little while... especially at night as often he'll call out a couple of times and just decide it's all too much effort and he'll go back to sleep.

    hi smithy. saw your pics... how much has your bubba grown!!!

    and big hello to marcellus. looking forward to work?

    we'll it's generally agreed, the thread has slowed.BUT we are not slack, we're busy!!!

    all is well here. Ash is continuing to love his solids and has cut back his breastfeeds. Having trouble getting any fluid into him after his early morn feed til his afternoon tea. We've tried every sippy cup ever made, dreamfeeding during the day, cutting back his solids (pft he just got hungrier and didn't sleep at night) and have dabbled with forumla over the weekend all to no avail.

    He has a reasonable bedtime feed, a good dreamfeed and a fairly good early morning feed with small snack feeds until after his 2nd nap. Been stressing out that he's not getting enough fluid but am trying to relax as he's very certain he doesn't want anything! SO MY question is how many breastfeeds were you 7/8mth olds having.
    Ash is only 6 and a bit months but we started solids early for various reasons and on the advice of our doctor.

    anyhoo have done a backflip on using our frozen embies. have now decided we weill use them before we leave here so that's by december and i have to go on metformin so will have to wean Ash in a couple of months. it's been a big decision and given our foray into formula and bottle was an absolute disaster this weekend i'm feeling very nervous about it.

    going away to visit my family this week... Ash's first trip to my hometown. super excited. Will probably think about weaning bub after that. but talk about feeling guilty!!! i feel like an awful mum but i can't bf him on the drugs so have no choice really.

    anyhoo sorry for the rant. am feeling pretty low about bf atm and terrible about deciding to wean him. all the reassuring arguements go through my head (i gave him 6+mnths of breast; lots of babies are on forumla with no ill effects; he's basically weaning himself etc etc) but my heart doesn't hear what my logic is saying!

    hi to all the lovely ladies reading ox

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    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
    15,272

    at 8 months e would snack all day - but as to REAL feeds, she was only feeding maybe half a dozen times a day. she is down to about four decent feeds now (and whatever snacks she can sneak - but it's three sucks, "thanks mum, i'm gong now!". it was around then that we could go out and she would go for several hours without feeds BUT, she has always been a fantastic water drinker. she has cups stashed everywhere and tells us when they need filling up

    Grub, i live in an exhausted haze atm! thankfully when i'm home DH is here too so i can at least relax a little - provided we have nothing on (which is very rare for us at the moment!). am struggling with it all, but given DH isn't really able to work much (no spud farming work in the wet, and not much else happening locally that he can do due to his visual problems) it's a case of either me working or we have no income at all. it's hard but it is what it is. going longer hours and more days (for us to have the income) has made me seriously consider weaning DD onto cows milk (so i get your thoughts there grub!) so that DH can do the overnight stuff - but it just seems too hard! i'm struggling with the insulin resistance on the long days too so may have to speak to a dietician to help me work out a better eating plan that is sustainable both at home and at work. not sure there is one really. a choccy bar on the way home from work is my cure for the flat evenings at the moment. it's not working some days, but it's all i've got! this week i'll probably have fresh vegie soup waiting for me when i get home - oh, and a baby hanging for boobie milk!

  8. #8
    barney Guest

    my miracale is 6 months old today yay

  9. #9
    barney Guest

    hello to all you beautiful busy mummys.
    well just a quiky as im very busy too lol..just wanted to say a big hi to all and thanks so much for sharing your pics girls ,there lovely photos.
    all is wonderful here miss c has got a new walker and she loves it,and she looks eva so cute in it.
    well girls hopefully soon ill get some me time and ill be able to catch up on some perssies till then love to you all and pls know i think of you all the time.