lise and RRH we are at the "helping'' mummy stage. which i think is worse cos the hlep really isn't help lol ie mummy folds the washign into the basket, ashton takes all the washing out, carries it around like a trophy and then puts it all back... obviously unfolded!!! We get the mail together, he won't give me the letters without a tantrum tho and i have to resort to the barter system.... But he really likes to help daddy do anything by standing about 20cm from DHs face or project and watching, pointing, chatting and touching