FG: Congrats on finding out you are having a little boy. I know you and DH both thought it was a boy so must be wonderful to know for sure. I think the name you have chosen is fantastic, it is nice to have some family connection to yourself as well as DH.

I'm thinking of using my Mum's name as a middle name if we have a girl as it was also my granmothers name as well "Rose". My sister's eldest son has my grandfathers name and my dad's name and my brothers twins have both my grandfathers names as second names, so it's a bit of a family tradition. Although if we have a boy I'm stumped with trying to choose a first name let alone a second name. We have decided to wait until we know what we are having before we really start thinking of names as we are finding it so hard to think of names that we both like and that won't clash with the surname.

Murph: When my ob mentioned to whole downs testing, I said "I suppose at my age I am at higher risk" and he was like at 36 the risk isn't that high. So it has really shocked me about my friend, seeing she already has 3 kids and the youngest has only just turned 1 and she has never tested high risk before.