Pregnancy after Long Term TTC #6 - 2009

[airline]

........and I'm back and delighted to say that hCG doubled to 340, progesterone is 310, so really high like last time! Yeh yeh yeh for me
I'm celebrating tonight with some non-alcoholic sparkling grapejuice

[BOC]

Oh YAY Airline that's awesome news!





Make sure you have a glass or two for us too!!!

[lise]

Afternoon girls,

before I get started, I guess this is where I have to confess that i'm typing this at home... braless... It just seems so much more comfy when i'm at home, and luckily I haven't been caught out yet. That I know of!

grub - thanks for the chat re finding out the sex. We're still a bit undecided. I'm quite keen to find out but I don't want to find out and then be disappointed that I didn't wait till the birth. Though I guess that would be pretty hard since you're so full of endorphins...! Glad your sister is coming soon for a visit - sisters are always good fun

BOC - wow, what a list! It certainly does give me lots of hope knowing that all these women also came from the LTTTC thread! And I'm not even the last name on the list, yay!

grub and BOC - you ladies are in Newcastle? I'll be there for Christmas as that's where DH is from. I must say I enjoy Newcastle more than I enjoy the in-laws - perhaps we'll have to organise a rendevous whilst i'm there to allow me to escape, hehehe!!

Murph - sorry to hear that the birth wasn't so great, but i'm so glad you're at home now enjoying motherhood!

Bella - glad you stood up for yourself there honey, nobody needs a doctor like that!!

Greenslw - I thought superwoman duties were winding down? I know that I don't really know what your situation is, but I certainly would echo everyone else's thoughts, that planning a return to work the week after your EDD would be incredibly tough. Hope you're able to take the time to make the right decision xx

smithy - you are so incredibly organised, I take my hat off to you!!

saph - gotta love an ebay bargain! I must say i'm a slow convert but i'm been browsing daily "just to see"...!

airline - so glad your results were good you must feel so relieved!! Now you can sit back and enjoy. I must say, I haven't had any other BTs since my BFP, and just the one scan, so I wouldn't have known at all if my levels weren't doing what they should. But the scan was fine so that's the main thing. Enjoy yours, I certainly did well up when I saw the heart beat, as did DH...!

poppyfairy - hope the family dramas have eased for you and you're feeling a bit better. I know that even if it doesn't change anything, I find writing it here, or talking over it with someone extremely therapeutic.

I got very excited yesterday cos I was convinced I was starting to show already (yeah, a bit early, I know but you know how it is...!) but clearly I just ate too much at dinner time. When did others start to show?

Still plodding along nicely, with (touch wood) no major symptoms to cause me too much grievance. I'm trying to organise a move - we're heading back to Canberra in a few weeks and I need to find us somewhere to live...!

Okay, a big hello to everyone else. Hope it's not too hot for you wherever you are. I think it's about 34 here today but i'm sitting in the dining room with the fan blowing on me so nice and cool.

Anyway, better go before you all fall asleep of boredom, I must get on here more often so my posts don't turn into essays!

[mitf]

Hi Ladies,

Seems a lot has happened since I posted in here last week. DH and I have had a lovely long weekend away down in country Victoria. It always seems there is so much to when you get back though, including catching up with all you lovely ladies. I am a little behind but will attempt some personals.... Sorry to anyone I miss.

Lise - I love your ticker. Elephants are my favourite. I will have to try and sort one of those out later.

BOC - wow what a list! Thanks for adding me to it. So you can fill in the details. It will be a surprise and my DD is 5 July. And we have nickname him/her snuggles.

Murph - Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful little girl Jasmine. Sorry to hear that you didn't have a good birthing experience. It was interesting to hear you say that you wished you hadn't gone public and had an Ob. DH and I have been struggling with the same decision. We see the pros and cons of both and have been going around in circles a bit. We really need to decide soon.

Airline - welcome. It's lovely to see another familiar face in here. So glad to hear your numbers are improving. I have had quiet a few follow up BT's also (my clinic is a little paranoid). Enjoy the grape juice and I hope you can sit back and enjoy the moment.

Poppyfairy - sorry to hear you are having dramas with the MIL. I hope she finds her broom and disappears for a while.

Bella - wow possibly 10 days to go and twin boys! You must be getting so excited. I hope your labour is as pain free as possible and you recover quickly.

Grub - hope you aren't feeling too lonely and the days are flying till DH will be back with you. Enjoy the me time and make sure you give yourself lots of treats!

LilMiss - Goog luck with your scan and finding out the sex of your little bundle. There is a part of me that would like to know but DH and I think we would like a surprise. Glad you are happy with your choice of care. DH and I are struggling a little bit with that one at the moment.

Greenslw - good luck with the babies room prep. I couldn't imagine going back to work so soon but I guess you need to decide what is right for you. If they really want and need you surely they would have something available the following term?

Kelly & Neptune - thanks foe sharing your pics. You both have beautiful little angels.

Melbel - love your nursery pics. It looks fantastic!

AFM - MS is still at bay. My main symptom is extreme tiredness. My boobs have started feeling tender again and I have a sore back, although I am not sure if that is preg related or from falling asleep in the car on the drive home Sunday.

Question - All this talk of bras (or lack of) brings me to maternity bras. My boobs have definitely gotten bigger and my bras are getting a little tight. Any suggestions on when I should invest in maternity bras? I don't really want to have to buy some only to grow out of them.... or is this something that cannot be helped?

Mitf xo

[BOC]

Hi mitf! I have updated you on the EDD list! YAY Another surprise! (I was feeling a little lonely there LOL) Look forward to hearing Snuggles' progress.

In reference to the bras, they generally say by 16 weeks you should be into wire free bras as the underwires can cause problems and block your milk ducts. But don't go spending a fortune on new bras just yet.

By 8wks I had grown into a D cup (now a DD ) but I wondered the same thing, not wanting to spend a lot of money on something I'd grow out of in a few months. So I went into Bras n Things to get fitted but the silly cow in there refused to fit me! Told me to come back at 20 weeks and they would fit me and sell me some maternity bras then. I was furious and asked her what I was supposed to do in the meantime as all my bras were underwire B cups. She told me to go to Big W or Best & Less and buy some el-cheapo wire-frees to get me thru. Turned out to be perfect advice as I now have to wear bras day and night (except this morning ) so I went into best & less and bought some fuller-figure wire free soft cotton bras that are soooo comfy! And I was totally surprised at what good support they provide! I will look up the brand and let you know, they were only about $13-$15 each. Hope that helps you!

Lise: Hello honorary Novocastrian! Love your ticker! So exciting when you get to put it up there! As for showing, I popped out at 7 1/2 weeks, literally overnight! One night there was not much there and in the morning I got up and looked in the mirror and "POP"! Now I seem to vary, I seem to have a couple of really big days followed by a couple of smaller days and of course it's much bigger at night after I've stuffed myself stupid . The most amazing part for me is when my belly went hard. I hadn't even really noticed it until my last OB visit, when she put the doppler on me she put it up under my belly button and I was like "What?!? It's up there already???" I had completely missed it! Good luck with the

[grub17]

airline - what fabuloso news lovely!!! celebrate each milestone i say! good luck

mitf - it must be the weather. suddnely all the preggy ladies woke up and now can't shut up lol (i mean that in a nice way of course )

But as for bras, i went to david jones at 16 weeks and got fitted properly. I bought 2 good ones - a black lacy number which i love and a white one Dh calls "the tent" lol. then went to the cheapy shops and got a few singlet shirts, a crop top BF bra and another white sports one. The woman who fitted me was excellent, old and very sure of her job. I have room to grow but have the support i need right now too. But i was very surprised that I went from a 12b to a 16C - i would never have gone up to a 16 had i been fitting myself iykwim.

By the by, i love my crop top BF bra and wear it to bed nearly every night. love love love

hi lise - i was convinced i was showing at 8 weeks. I look back at the pics and i sssoooo wasn't lol. However, I was by 11 weeks. That's when i had to go into maternity clothes I can't believe i used to have a flat stomach that didn't move of its own accord (and create terrible terrible little smellies lol). It will be very strange to be not pregnant again! I wonder if you have that 'freakout' moment after birth when you are waiting for a kick cos you've forgotten bub is earthside now? hmmm. will keep you all posted on that one.

OMG my mother is driving me nuts! she has taken upon herself to stalk me. If i dont answer the home phone when she rings she just starts calling my mobile.. then home, then mobile aarrggghhh I'm on the other line/in the shower/gone for a walk!!! leave me alone woman!!! I know she's "worrying'' cos i'm alone but I think she's going to pull out the "you WILL call me when you go into labour won't you'' line soon. I"ve already been told that DH is to call HER first and not his parents when bubs arrives. :eyeroll: anyhoo, had to tell her to stop it and that i'll call her if something happens. Got the feeling it didn't go down too well... she's a bit tempermental.

Would like to report facials with head massages are a MUST for all preggy ladies! it was devine!. But the chick told me she was 'a little psychic'. Then asked me if i had names chosen - I told her we've got a shortlist of four names (didn't say what they were) and she immediately said "you'll pick the D name"!!! Daniel is on our list!!! WTF! Anyhoo, that was creepy in a non serial killer kind of way. Her other predication, bub will arrive on dec 5 or 15, which i was happy to hear

nighty night chatterboxes. love it

[Loveinamist]

Hi all!
Thanks for all the lovely supportive messages. DH and I have had a talk and we have decided to get everyone who pees us off to back off. I even composed a message to send family if needed. It is a bit strong but it is how we feel!!!

'Everyone, Fiona is having a baby in January at such and such a hospital in such and such a town, Somerset. If you 'care' about this (original wording was 'give a sh*t') and want to see her and the new baby please make your own arrangements to be there. Fiona will decide on the day who she wants to see while in labour and has the right as a vulnerable pregnant woman to refuse to see people who will add to her stress rather than relieve it. She has no idea how she will feel on the day so for the first time she would like to be the one being looked after rather than the one doing the looking after! Fiona and DH need nurturing and protecting at this time and wish the people around them would give them this or give them space if they need it. This may be the one and only time that Fiona and DH experience this special time of a new born baby so we must admit that we are finding it very difficult to care (once again 'give a s**t' appeared here in the original!!) about other people's dramas at this time. We have never asked for this before and hope that this can be done for us this one time. (I was going to make a sly mention of our disastrous wedding where we couldn't wait to leave and couldn't wait for it to be over but I thought that might just cause too much drama and left it out!!) So please do the following for us.
1. We don't want to hear complaints about how much accommodation costs around here. We don't have the room in our house and even if we did, we plan to have a babymoon of sorts in our house so that DH and I can get to know our baby and we can go through the hormonal changes that happen after the birth together. Fiona holding the baby and DH holding and protecting the two of us.
2. When you do visit, we would appreciate not having to run around looking after you. You know where everything is in the kitchen so please feel free to make as many cups of tea as you like. Cook, eat, make merry. We want this to be a happy celebratory time! However Fiona may spend alot of time sleeping with the baby. DH may even join them!!
3. Please do not complain about how much any presents have cost or make mention of the 'hardship' you will now be going through because you have bought them. Fiona and DH have bought 99% of the things for the baby and have not asked for expensive 'designer' things. We personally think our baby is worth anything that comes his way and have made our own sacrifices to get him the things he needs. Maybe we are alone in this as he is our baby and we are wrong to expect this from others. If this is the case just don't buy anything.

In all Fiona and Dh are excited and scared about what will be happening to them after 7 years of trying for a baby and 12 years altogether with it just being the two of them. If you think that you are the people to help support us through this happy, exciting and somewhat scary time then we look forward to seeing you and enjoying this experience with you. If you are not feeling this than perhaps you should stay home and come and see the baby when everything has calmed down. (original said 'stay the f**k at home!' Oh dear!!!)

Thanks
Fiona and DH

Now reading it back I can see it is written for one particular person but hey it felt good to write it!!!! Hopefully it won't need to be sent. Just a quick question...does the fact I have a wicked stepmother make me a fairytale princess?? LOL!

Now I had a million personals I wanted to write but will need to look back and get my head sorted before I do that.