OMG haha I havnt been on here one day and you are all blabbermuffins!!
LM -=- How in the world did your proivate cover screw up so much.. I wouldve given them some mouth for that! But at least your in the Royal womens Ive heard they are pretty good.. One of my gf's had her little one there, and she was happy Im not too far away actually hehe having mine at the Mater Mothers. As for thinking about maternity clothes early.. I think its a great idea.. You know how just above your pelvis gets really hard and tender? Wearing the stretchy pants early makes that so much more comfy especialy if your working. Good luck with the scan on Tuesday! I have my 20 week one this wednesday comeing. HAHA at furbaby licking your tummy! They say children and dogs are meant for each other.. She/hes just getting a head start!
Mrs Slider -=- Sorry to hear your still tired and sick. I know what you mean about it being so hard to take in after so long ttc.. Especially when your so early because you really dont feel much difference.. Other then feeling like youve got food poisening every morning and havnt slept for a month.
Greenslaw -=- Good to hear theres no diabetes. And especially good everything is fine with you and bubs! Ive never been to an antenatal class (yes i know naughty ol me) But during my last labour I found standing during contractions, leaning over with my hands flat on the bed and rocking my hips really helped.. especially when my mum (who was at the labour) stood behind me and held onto my hips while i focused on breathing.. Also I had a hot shower on my lower back towards the end with the midwife, the heat was soothing.. and between contractins i was also sipping an up n go for energy.. by the time he was coming laying on my back closing my eyes and just thinking a positivly as i could and screaming when i found control again helped haha.. your right everyone is different.. but hope this might help in some way anyway
Lise -=- that is so rude! did they even stop to think you may have been waiting for the 12 week mark before telling everyone! you poor thing im sorry you didnt get to spread the news yourself.. I think sometimes people get so excited they forget there manners and act without thinking.. I think you should point out why thats upset you to them and have it known that it was not ok! hopefully they will realise and you can get a sincere apology out of them and try to move on.. something im still trying to get out of my mother for abusing my husband while we were on the way to the hospital bleeding after 2 mc's before.. and you know what for.. because I couldnt drive around and help her out at the last minute for things she wanted that day.. We still arnt talking and her arrogance and selfishness poisens me with frustration everyday.. but eventually I think she will come around.. If she doesnt want to miss out on her family over such a trivial thing!
BOC-=- Sleeping at night can be really hard, Have you tried investing in a body pillow? I had awful backpain this time around and the body pillow I got has really helped! As for sick people being jerks and disregarding the babiesand kids and pregnant women.. It sickens me, and I know it all to well.. The hospital I had my DS in was terrible and they let in so many sick people to visit the babies. THere were 4 babies and mothers in each room and about 5 visitor s to each one, and id be hiding in the corner while they all coughed and splattered all over everything.. Disgusting!
GRUB -=- Your furbaby licks the carpet?? LOL that is weird, but the kindof thing you would miss if s/he wasnt around.. That made me giggle tho..
I have to agree people are rude idiots LOL.. Good n you putting the hard word on your parents.. Unfortunately not everyone gets that.. They really should tho, your right it IS your news not theres.
WOOT for DH comeing home! Have a good one hun! thinking of you xx
I know it would sound bad.. But if she isnt going to stop ranting about it.. Maybe just pretend you didnt get the message? Or just tell her when hes born and if she complains just say you were too busy and caught up in the moment at the time.. She should be too happy the baby was born healthy and happy to be *****ing about not calling her ..
Pheew... Hi to everyone else sorry if I missed you.. Al this writing is takeing away from DS time so i really need to wrap it up..
AFM -=- I ended up writing my mother a long letter... 22 Pages long to be exact.. Moreof a book. In it I tried not to attack her, but instead point out exactly how invisable and desregarded she has made me feel the last two years.. I explained that I have a growing family now and I need her respect and support us if she wants to be a part of it.. I told her in it i miss who I know she can be and i detest the fact that she is away from all of us because of such a silly reason.. I told her too that I really hate the way she acted towards us and I expect an apology from her and for her to think before she acts from now on rather then putting herself first and only all the time.. That she needs to treat my husband nicer and stop acting like hes stolen me away from her.. and to help us out more rather then trying to act like a carefree woman with no responsibilities or obligations to us (shes never taken DS for us once) I dont know when or how to give it to her because we havnt spoken in months.. But I thinkits something that has to happen regardless of whether it will solve anything.. She needs to know how I feel
Oh girls, another one for the "You Know You're Pregnant When..." books...
I was just in Coles in the fridge section and for a very brief moment, whilst walking past the cream I had the urge to buy a punnet, with the intention of going home, whipping it up and sitting down with a bowl & spoon
But as I said, it was a very brief moment. I quickly came to my senses, went to the confectionery aisle and bought some chips & fruit tingles instead
I can't believe some of the thoughts that cross my mind these days
Thanks for your support re my rant - feeling better about it today. Just a very quick one from me for now as waiting for my acupuncture appointment - Grub ENJOY!!! I imagine we won't hear from you for a few days I'm quite jealous, DH is in Newscastle this weekend and there's been so much talk of DTD and I've only been able to convince DH to DTD once...! TTC certainly does wonders for your sex life, I might recommend it to anyone trying NOT to get pg, lol!!
Last edited by lise; December 4th, 2009 at 03:40 PM.
girls...sorry only a quick one cos again the scrolling makes me queasy, but have to say LM!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the kitchen???!!! lovin' your work girl!! I'm not into DTD yet...in fact due to nausea I *TMI warning* I advised I'd love to help him out in another way...but I'd gag
Anyway, I am keeping up with everyone's news, just can't do personals cos of the scrolling and changing of screens. soooo sorry.
love and belly rubs to you all. The nausea abated yesterday...gave me a scare and I had a multiple sob through the day....but it's back today, different but definately there. Hope this is normal. Roll on Wednesday....xx
well not so happy ive been so sick since yesterday it just hasnt been funny havent stopped spewing for over 24hrs,terrible reflux,very low b/p at 77/95 so i have not been well anyways got the better of me went to hossy and now im home and feeling lots better.eating lots of water icypoles,dh being sooo wonderful and now his gone to work poor thing is so tired so for the next few days im on bed rest and told to take it easy,charlie is still mooving heaps and all is good with her so that was our main concern.so ill be lurking but prob not much so just no i love you all and will be thinking of you .
grub just swap spit hun i would lol
take care all.
Well we cancelled the damn computer as it still didn't arrive. It's in the country, but noone knows where. don't buy Dell over the internet no matter how red and sexy! so now have to go and look at buying one locally and not leave anything to chance.
anyway, I'm just back to say sorry Smithy, I saw your ticker and really wanted to say congrats to you on 30 weeks earlier, but talking about me is always infinitely more important...kidding Great news, hang on through all that turbulence. sorry to hear you have been so sick
smithy...big hugs for not feeling well at all! Hope that you're on the mend and the icy poles do the trick! I'm enjoying them myself at the mo. take care x
well miss 'i don't have a red puter', i'm here lol. dtd was great lol... better the second time tho as 8 weeks off ... well let's just say things were tight. DH was exhuasted from his long drive and fneding off the cold and is dead to the world. But me... well the insomnia hit! i've been ssoooo lucky up til now. slept fairly well.
it's very strange having him home. weird beig touched afffectionately again but good TMI - don't know if it was DTD but i'm feel very ouchy 'down there' and the branxton hicks are definitely noticeable now but not painful. am really keen for bub to arrive as i'm very very very over it.... aslo didn't have the predicted meltdown when DH arrived... but feel it'll come in its own good time lol
smithy about the not feeling well love. but i'm glad you took yourself off to the hospy. hope the bed rest makes the difference and woot woot for 30 weeks!!!
airline - you are sounding so positive.. it's funny how you welcome the sickness hey! lol. hang in there love. i'm for you ox
lise - i say get out the sexy nighty, light the candles and seduce your DH... he's a bloke isn't he! he'll be putty in your hands after about5 mins! lol. i read a thread once about DTD while pregnant... someone said having an O was like "mummy and daddy giving bub a cuddle'' lol. i thought that was cute, in a freaky, weird kind of way.
boc - excellent self control! you are a better preggy lady than me! lol. i am going bananas for the chocolate thesedays... so to speak.
kyrawolfe - i had to laugh at your post length... Murph would be soo proud (says the shy and retiring 2-sentence poster ). But good on you for writing the letter. have you given it to her yet? It's awful when good mums go bad hey! Mine is just very demanding and "it's all about me'' sort.
thanks for the advice re callin mum when going into labour. think i'll continue to give the non-commital answer and just not call. too bad, so sad.
wow :p
Im not too far away actually hehe having mine at the Mater Mothers. As for thinking about maternity clothes early.. I think its a great idea.. You know how just above your pelvis gets really hard and tender? Wearing the stretchy pants early makes that so much more comfy
im sorry you didnt get to spread the news yourself.. I think sometimes people get so excited they forget there manners and act without thinking.. I think you should point out why thats upset you to them and have it known that it was not ok! hopefully they will realise and you can get a sincere apology out of them and try to move on.. something im still trying to get out of my mother for abusing my husband while we were on the way to the hospital bleeding after 2 mc's before.. and you know what for.. because I couldnt drive around and help her out at the last minute for things she wanted that day.. We still arnt talking and her arrogance and selfishness poisens me with frustration everyday.. but eventually I think she will come around.. If she doesnt want to miss out on her family over such a trivial thing!
thinking of you xx
so i have not been well anyways got the better of me went to hossy and now im home and feeling lots better.eating lots of water icypoles,dh being sooo wonderful and now his gone to work poor thing is so tired 
so for the next few days im on bed rest and told to take it easy,charlie is still mooving heaps and all is good with her so that was our main concern.so ill be lurking but prob not much so just no i love you all and will be thinking of you .
Great news, hang on through all that turbulence. sorry to hear you have been so sick
about the not feeling well love. but i'm glad you took yourself off to the hospy. hope the bed rest makes the difference and woot woot for 30 weeks!!!
for you ox
). But good on you for writing the letter. have you given it to her yet? It's awful when good mums go bad hey! Mine is just very demanding and "it's all about me'' sort. 
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