OMG haha I havnt been on here one day and you are all blabbermuffins!!

LM -=- How in the world did your proivate cover screw up so much.. I wouldve given them some mouth for that! But at least your in the Royal womens Ive heard they are pretty good.. One of my gf's had her little one there, and she was happy Im not too far away actually hehe having mine at the Mater Mothers. As for thinking about maternity clothes early.. I think its a great idea.. You know how just above your pelvis gets really hard and tender? Wearing the stretchy pants early makes that so much more comfy especialy if your working. Good luck with the scan on Tuesday! I have my 20 week one this wednesday comeing. HAHA at furbaby licking your tummy! They say children and dogs are meant for each other.. She/hes just getting a head start!

Mrs Slider -=- Sorry to hear your still tired and sick. I know what you mean about it being so hard to take in after so long ttc.. Especially when your so early because you really dont feel much difference.. Other then feeling like youve got food poisening every morning and havnt slept for a month.

Greenslaw -=- Good to hear theres no diabetes. And especially good everything is fine with you and bubs! Ive never been to an antenatal class (yes i know naughty ol me) But during my last labour I found standing during contractions, leaning over with my hands flat on the bed and rocking my hips really helped.. especially when my mum (who was at the labour) stood behind me and held onto my hips while i focused on breathing.. Also I had a hot shower on my lower back towards the end with the midwife, the heat was soothing.. and between contractins i was also sipping an up n go for energy.. by the time he was coming laying on my back closing my eyes and just thinking a positivly as i could and screaming when i found control again helped haha.. your right everyone is different.. but hope this might help in some way anyway

Lise -=- that is so rude! did they even stop to think you may have been waiting for the 12 week mark before telling everyone! you poor thing im sorry you didnt get to spread the news yourself.. I think sometimes people get so excited they forget there manners and act without thinking.. I think you should point out why thats upset you to them and have it known that it was not ok! hopefully they will realise and you can get a sincere apology out of them and try to move on.. something im still trying to get out of my mother for abusing my husband while we were on the way to the hospital bleeding after 2 mc's before.. and you know what for.. because I couldnt drive around and help her out at the last minute for things she wanted that day.. We still arnt talking and her arrogance and selfishness poisens me with frustration everyday.. but eventually I think she will come around.. If she doesnt want to miss out on her family over such a trivial thing!

BOC-=- Sleeping at night can be really hard, Have you tried investing in a body pillow? I had awful backpain this time around and the body pillow I got has really helped! As for sick people being jerks and disregarding the babiesand kids and pregnant women.. It sickens me, and I know it all to well.. The hospital I had my DS in was terrible and they let in so many sick people to visit the babies. THere were 4 babies and mothers in each room and about 5 visitor s to each one, and id be hiding in the corner while they all coughed and splattered all over everything.. Disgusting!

GRUB -=- Your furbaby licks the carpet?? LOL that is weird, but the kindof thing you would miss if s/he wasnt around.. That made me giggle tho..

I have to agree people are rude idiots LOL.. Good n you putting the hard word on your parents.. Unfortunately not everyone gets that.. They really should tho, your right it IS your news not theres.

WOOT for DH comeing home! Have a good one hun! thinking of you xx

I know it would sound bad.. But if she isnt going to stop ranting about it.. Maybe just pretend you didnt get the message? Or just tell her when hes born and if she complains just say you were too busy and caught up in the moment at the time.. She should be too happy the baby was born healthy and happy to be *****ing about not calling her ..

Pheew... Hi to everyone else sorry if I missed you.. Al this writing is takeing away from DS time so i really need to wrap it up..

AFM -=- I ended up writing my mother a long letter... 22 Pages long to be exact.. Moreof a book. In it I tried not to attack her, but instead point out exactly how invisable and desregarded she has made me feel the last two years.. I explained that I have a growing family now and I need her respect and support us if she wants to be a part of it.. I told her in it i miss who I know she can be and i detest the fact that she is away from all of us because of such a silly reason.. I told her too that I really hate the way she acted towards us and I expect an apology from her and for her to think before she acts from now on rather then putting herself first and only all the time.. That she needs to treat my husband nicer and stop acting like hes stolen me away from her.. and to help us out more rather then trying to act like a carefree woman with no responsibilities or obligations to us (shes never taken DS for us once) I dont know when or how to give it to her because we havnt spoken in months.. But I thinkits something that has to happen regardless of whether it will solve anything.. She needs to know how I feel

anyway ill pop on later.. Take care loverlies..

Ky