Hey Lani and Grub,

it seems like it's been a while since anyone in our group had a regular birth at the baby's choosing ( not C/S or induction) so I hope in some way it might feel a bit special to have a bit of apprehension about when your babies choose to come. I can't imagine what you are going through as I had to pencil in a date for my caesarian that fitted into the doctor's schedule, and when I thought of it, I realised that I chose my baby's birthday. Now that is a weird feeling. What you are going through is as normal as nature intended it so endure the wait as long as everything is safe and you are healthy. You've come so far and done an amazing job keeping these little ones safe along the way. I know it's a crazy, anxiety filled time but I hope it passes by quickly and you have your lovely bundles safely in your arms before much longer.

Lots of love and enjoy the most amazing ride of your lives.

P.S don't reject the pethadine, the most fun you can have and it's legal. I'm still piecing together bits of memories of people I phoned or texted the night of Jazzie's birth (how embarrassment). I remember of the birth and I was totally with it, don't get me wrong, things just got a bit hazy later on after they stepped up the pain relief. Hee hee, what a hoot! Confiscate all mobiles! Lotsa luck lovelies