Smithy you make me laugh, I was thinking lets give it a try as we have been advised against it because of my pelvis and to be honest it is so painful who would want to. So we have a DS free night tonight (the first since he was born) so I though tonights the night nice movie nice dinner bit of romance. Well sleep over has been cancelled and I have thrush from antibiotics. Night cancelled. Poor DH he has had any for months.
Mine started off more psychological. I had a couple of friends mc within a couple of days of DTD and since then I have been so scared something would go wrong and hurt the baby. In the first 11 weeks I wouldn't let DH anywhere near me. Then we had a little weekend away and kind of got caught up in the moment... a few times but since then I reckon I could count on one hand the number of times we've attempted it. I'm in the mood and everything but once we start I start worrying then panic and then it's just not an enjoyable experience. Plus now with my back problems it's just plain painful. Poor DH, he's been so patient but the other night the evil little Chucky came out with some smart a*se remark about not getting much these days.
Hmmm maybe I should take a leaf out of Smithy's book and start chasing him around the house with bits of CM, maybe that will turn him on
I can barely type I am laughing so much the mental images are wonderful. Girls you are so funny. Poor men, we get them into a habit of DTD all the bloody time when TTC, and then suddenly, it's leaving them alone for a while and pretending we don't know what's going on
I have to share this little gem with you. I am sitting in the office reading Well hiding actually. And all I hear is my three year old running up the hallway yelling bugger bugger bugger and then I here his banging and crashing in the toilet still yelling bugger bugger bugger.OOPS I'm thinking there is a little deposit somewhere as DH walks past after cleaning it up. I am rolling around laughing as I hear a triumphant YAY and the toilet flushed a few times. It's times like this that make all the pain and no sex (yeah boys we miss it to) and other general cr@p worth it. Better go check the damage.
Smithy I miss read your post and thought you said you are now trying it again. Glad you're not it doesn't sound good. Maybe some rasbery leaf tea is less vigarous?
Saph our bodies aren't with us are they? bloody thrush is awful, hope you've got something to help. Saph I love it bugga bugga bugga! I just saw a glimps into my future and I"m giggling like a school girl. EXCELENT! Also well done on the hiding.
BOC, Thank you for sharing your story. I guess mine is different but I was scared in the begining my IVF dr said that DTD was good for keeping baby up there, who knows. all I know is now at this end DTD can help bring things on. It is so amazing to hear that every body has a different expereince and they are all righ for them.
LondonMiss I have a theory, if men truly understood us they probably would all be gay!
Well DH is on labor watch and it's scary. I poped outside to hang up some washing and well didn't hear the phone so he phoned both my mobiles and my mum! SO I guess I need to keep my phone on me more. Good to know he's as anxious as I am.
Im so glad im not the only one putting my dh through a sex strike! LOL My dh is driving me insane,asking "can we have sex yet?". We havent had sex since before the et so its been 8 weeks.The longest ever.hahaha
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but since then I reckon I could count on one hand the number of times we've attempted it. I'm in the mood and everything but once we start I start worrying then panic and then it's just not an enjoyable experience. Plus now with my back problems it's just plain painful. Poor DH, he's been so patient but the other night the evil little Chucky came out with some smart a*se remark about not getting much these days.
the mental images are wonderful. Girls you are so funny. Poor men, we get them into a habit of DTD all the bloody time when TTC, and then suddenly, it's leaving them alone for a while and pretending we don't know what's going on
I miss read your post and thought you said you are now trying it again. Glad you're not it doesn't sound good. Maybe some rasbery leaf tea is less vigarous?
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