BG- thanks for the info and knowing why I am fussing

Megan- thanks also to you for your understanding

HM- i can understand your frustration- you are within your rights to make your own personal choices and not be pressured. Society and our culture certainly does now have a programmed set of expectations about the way things should be done

LNB- I hope those emotions settle foryou...i cried the other night over nothing much myself!

afm- feeling more calm today. I think I was so anxious all last week with the spotting, and imagining having an ectopic and back into hospital etc...and then yesterday's results were a really encouraging sign. My nurse said I need to try and relax now as best I can and take it one day at a time..so that's what I am going to do