Hey Sal. Yeah carrying 2 has been a challange, but then, I don't know any different, LOL

The pillow thing. Ok, I just use a normal pillow, that you use for your head, run it long ways from about shoulder blade through to start of bottom, but only half way under you, so run it long ways running parallel to your spine. Bascially it is a wedge, elevating half your body. You end up sleeping on a slight slant if that makes sense. There are actual pillows that you can buy to do this, but they were expensive, so my OB said to try this. I must admit though, I do alternate between wedging and I have a body pillow that my MIL bought me that I use to elevate my belly when lying on my side.