thread: Pregnancy after Long Term TTC - November 2008

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  1. #1
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    Mar 2007
    Sydney
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    Sorry ladies no time for personals as I should be working...but just wanted to jump on the new thread.....will try to catch up a little latter...

    AFM, 3 sleeps till our 10 week and 2 day scan!!! I am so excited to see our June Bug again and just that all will be ok.

    to all

    AND BIG CONGRATS to HM and your BFP...

  2. #2
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    Oct 2008
    Melbourne
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    Hi Everyone -

    I am always lost when a new thread starts !

    Bel - hope your ovaries behave and start to settle down so you can enjoy being pg with the twins

    Kahlan and Hippymum - welcome , I am new to this thread as well but look forward to sharing the next 9 months with you

    Sorry for no other personals, I am working on getting to know everyone but really appreciate being able to have the support and advice of everyone here.

    AFM - scan is still 10 days away so the waiting continues. Feeling good, sore BB, very minimal nausea and feel tired but not everyday. I've started swimming again and put DH and I on a strict eating plan so perhaps that is helping keep things even.

    Take care everyone,
    LNB

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    Dec 2006
    In my own private paradise
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    LNB - don't fret about personals while you're finding your feet hun. some of us have been sharin each others journeys for months (years) so we all kinda know each other - you'll get to know us all pretty soon!

  4. #4
    Our IVF Blessing Has Arrived after 6 Cycles

    Apr 2007
    Brisbane Australia
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    LNB - No worries on the personals hun sometimes we don't have time too. I was not sick everyday and had my good days early on. 10 days to scan means 9 sleeps

    Nicole S - 3 sleeps to scan Yay!!!!!

    Bel - Hang in there hun hopefully it will get better soon. Thinking of you xxx

    BW - so gald the embies are ok for you I had not thought of that with Frostie at all

    Me: Bubs did not want me to get comfortable today so long day sitting at work seems to be happy now we are home in the beanbag

  5. #5
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    Jan 2008
    Gold Coast
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    Evening All,

    Nic- I am in agreeance with you..the prize at the end is worth the OHSS struggle

    BG- Thankyou for your kindness. I may just need you to hold my hand

    Nicole S- The countdown is on!!

    LNB- Good on you for getting into the swimming. I'm planning to start swimming too when it gets a bit warmer

    TL- Hope you and Baby Tigger are enjoying the bean bag tonight.

    Shannon- Are your little ones still determined to stay inside their mummy for now?? Thinking of you

    AFM...cruisy day. Went out for lunch and had a nanna nap this afternoon. Am TRYING to be patient, but I just want to be back to the old me.

    Night all

    Hugs Bel

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    Jan 2008
    Gold Coast
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    TL- When is the Brissy meet up again? Would love to meet up if possible

    xxx

  7. #7
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    Jun 2007
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    |Oh no i just lost my post...will try agian. Boy i hate that.

    TL- hope you have a better day tomorrow hun. I love a good bean bag too hun...took ages for us to get rid of the horrid smell from the beans at first but now it is beuwdiful.

    LNB...hun it is overwhelming but do the best you can...don't worry about personals. We are just al here for each other. You are a star. Welcome to you too hun and heres to a great pregnancy together! Swimming...great idea. i might try and find a pool too. I was only thinking that the other day...hmmm to find a pool that is not too heated and indoors...good luck

    Bel, Congratulations...wowsa twins. There are a few around ATM with twin bubbas. It is just wonderful. Love the nanna naps...get as many as you can i say.

    Shannon, Ohhhh so close. A new car, nice one. Hope you are feeling like all the ducks are in a row now hun. Nice to meet you by the way...lol. I have read some of your blog posts 'cause i had/having a bit of a hard time with the guilt side of things and having a successful outcome after trying for so long and being on the other side of the fence so to speak. Your experiences helped me a lot so far. Thanks and sending you calm birthing thoughts..

    BW, congratulations hun. Glad your embies are safe and sound. What a thought to have in the middle of the night! Hugs.

    BG, thanks for remembering me ...long time ago. I think the last time i was around your way...before i left for journal land only was when you were painting and renovating. Boy so long ago and so much has changed since then...thank goodness hey?

    AFM...what does that mean...??? i will have to go and look it up. I think it is an update of some kind by the looks.... Well my update is- Had my very first reality moment last night...a bit freaked out. I suddenly was aware i wanted a baby but not a child to follow IYKWIM. I was not ready for a 5yr old...school, lunch boxes...etc etc I was petrified. I know it is irrational, but i just wanted a baby! I surrendered to the moment and hoped to god it would feel real soon and trusted that i will bond and fall inlove to eventually want it all. Please don't judge me but i have been through every emotion possible for such a long time. I have always always wanted children and in the last year we have started to deal with being childless. We were starting to see and feel the other side to not having children...so now even though this is a much wanted thing, it is a bit of an adjustment. I suddenly felt like...nothing will be the same....i don't want to lose myself to this, my body will change, i am going to be needed every minute of everyday....and i broke into tears.
    Nutter i know when it is all i ever wanted for so long. So i went to bed at 7pm mind you thinking....please let me fall in love so that i can want it all. I think also a part of me is still being very cautious and protective...a sort of shock still that needs confirmation again and again.

    But you know what I feel great and weirdly that surprises me. I thought i woul dbe proper freaked out but i am calm and positive....apart from last nights outburst....all is great.

    Love to you all.
    HM xxoxoox