Firstly HAPPY NEW YEAR ladies.

Ok this might not be the right place to post this so if not feel free to move it!

I don't want to cause any concern to anyone but was wondering if anyone else had had the same thoughts during pg.

On and off for the last few weeks, and the closer I get to meeting our son i can't help but occassionally have the thought or the odd dream that maybe, like a billion to one chance that either my DH's sperm was mixed with someone elses egg and vice versa or that the blast that was transfered back is not ours. I know it sounds silly with all of the preparation that goes into fertilizing and watching them grow before transfer but how can i be 100% sure that he is is ours? Would it be rude or completely insane of me to question the IVF clinic? Would i be out of line to request testing at birth if i felt strongly enough about it?

I am sure it is just another side of the whole pg brain playing tricks and everything is fine but it seems to be in the back of my head. Does anyone have any advice or ways to overcome the fear I have?

Kas