Paula, thanks for reassurance re pains. It's so hard to know what is normal/not; when to worry/not when it's the first time! Same goes for advice re doing the deed So good that you're enjoying your antenatal classes so much. Is it the content or the people, or combo of both?

Juniper, we're thinking of having a lunch in about 3 weeks time (Friday) if you're free and interested. When I say "we" I mean Mum2be and me. Hopefully the MS will be better/gone by then? I have heard good things about the Mater. I have to say I wouldn't have chosen North West as my first choice; but I love my FS/OB; he is so nice and calming so I'm going where he is. Mind you, if bubs come too early apparently it's the Royal Brisbane as they have an intensive care unit. Needless to say, I don't want to go there as I want bubs to stay in for at least 35 weeks. Return to work is good but tiring. Got to get over the fear I'm still carrying from such a bad start to the PG and just enjoy being PG.

Lairdoz, just saw your post after I posted. You will be fine. As others have said, try not to read/worry about the bad stories. Of course they happen but worrying won't stop bad things happening. I know this is easier said than done; trust me because I worried for the first 12 weeks (and to be honest, because of it, still am). I hope you're having twins! Join me on this journey of twinnies!