Kaybee, you're preaching to the paranoid choir here...

mindhugs, do you think you could manage the first semester of uni and then defer from mid this year to mid next year? Congrats on getting into such a demanding course! Also, if you'd be getting a nuchal scan, that would be around 12wks, so you may not have to bother your IVF Dr for a scan then? I'd be inclined to see what results the nuchal scan gave before committing to an amnio, but I can see why you'd be thinking of it and we each have to do what we think is best.