Thanks for your comments ladies, is nice to know we arn't alone! i thought we wern't a very good couple for having arguments considering we finally have what we have wanted for so long. But i agree i think IVF takes alot from us, money, strength, happiness and it does effect our relationships its a very harsh journey and anyone that dosn't have to embark on it is extremely lucky for alot of reasons. My DH and i have always been ones to have arguments (we dont really fight) we just bicker but that has alot to do with the fact we are both strong headed and bossy lol! but the only things we ever argue about is money (or my husband wanting material things!) but at the end of the day we move on from an argument pretty quickly and realise we are being silly and we are so very lucky to have each other and our mircale bub on the way. I think the best we can do is get through each day as it comes and know that its normal to have these arguments or fights after a long and life changing experiecne. xxxxx

13 WEEKS TODAY cant hardly tell im excited with every week that comes