oneday with ds it was 17 weeks. with this one, despite assertions i'd feel it earlier, it wasn't til about 21 weeks

it also depends on where the placenta has attached and which way bub is facing.

maybe something like a doppler might help allay your fears so you can listen to the hb anytime you want to 'check' iykwim.
ox

just spending the weekend washing the new bub's stuff and serilising pumps etc. finally feels like i'm getting sorted. Only 44 days for me!!!!!!!!! yyyyiippeee