Saffy there are no words to make you feel better! I remember how scared i was going for that first scan and prepared my self everytime that something was going to be wrong (even still now a bit) because failure is all us IVF ladies know or knew for a long time. It must be so extremely hard for you and your DH to stay positive but its your little beans best chance of fighting strong! Yogi bear seems to know just what your going through and from her story miracles do happen! My thoughts are with you Saffy and i will be waiting for some good news which you deserve xxxxxxxxx