You are all welcome to email me and tell me why the General Baby Buddies is not suitable for your needs if you would like me to consider this further. I am not an unreasonable person. info@bellybelly.com.au - door is ALWAYS open, always has been...
For some reason, all complaints get posted on the forums and no-one takes the time out to contact me directly and ask nicely for something or to re-consider because xxx reason... instead, I often get the brunt of angry posts (and occasionally emails) which baffles me, when I do try so hard to accomodate everyone and I have provided such a site - is this what I deserve for doing so? I don't think I deserve it. Can you not take five minutes of your time to discuss things with me in private on a level, respectful medium? I'm not asking for much, just to be treated respectfully as you wish to also.
I will consider any objections to decisions or requests for things that you feel you need and want. I am human too, a may not be experienced in LTTTC but I am a mother, wife etc and I have been through some pretty ****ty things in my life that I never thought I would see an end to also. Sure it's not conception related, but people still hit depths of dispair in other aspects of their life which means just as much to them, sometimes worse - we are all dfferent but we are all human. I think what helped me was to realise that everyone has their 'disaster' and focusing on that creates more of that - many past icons and wise people say that. So if we can all be supportive and approach everything with a positive and open mind you can get more of what you need... be it the support you want in the General Baby Discussion. I think it's great to be able to expand our networks and support outside of the same mindframe that we are comfortable in.
It's not great for me to see such carry on and complaint when not one of you has attempted to contact myself, let alone any moderators to discuss this further, especially coming from this same group which has had the very same and related issues in the past, getting upset with requests not being accommodated, and as a result an uproar in the posts. In future I am just going to have to delete them to prevent this happening again, as I know you are all aware of this having happened before. That's all from me.
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