Rach - I know how overwhelming it all is. I would suggest talking to your GP to obtain all your options.

I have decided to go with a private OB, but I think the next time I come to do this I would consider all other options. I sort of felt like it was the expected thing to do after falling pregnant by IVF (sort of felt like my IVF clinic encouraged it).

In saying that, the only thing I haven't enjoyed about going private is the fees! Everything else has been fantastic. My OB is wonderful and I feel so well looked after.

Sorry I couldn't be more help.

Janie xxx