Janie that was my experience too, the IVF clinic gave us an early pregnancy handbook and the only recommendation was to book an Ob ASAP - no mention of the multitude of other options. There seems to be this assumption that because it took so much effort to get us pregnant in the first place then we must need high level of care in pregnancy and birth. Sure some women going through IVF will need a higher level of care because of any pre-existing conditions, but in our case there is absolutely no reason we couldn't have a fairly intervention free pg and birth (except for my age which increases my risks).
Rach as you know I am going the midwife care program through the birth centre adjoined to our region's biggest hospital. We have PHI of the highest kind, but I figure ALL women should have access to the best care and the public system shoud (and in the ACT) does cater for us all. We don't have the option of shared care which DH was very very keen on, but the more he learns about midwife care from others the happier he is we have chosen this option.
It is such a personal choice but I do wish that IVF patients were given more choice, abilityand encouraged to ask questions in the transition of their care from IVF clinic to the next step of pg and birth.
Like you I have found AC all too invasive and now I am choosing to take a different path for our pg and birth. I am glad you are comfortable with your choice.
Happy to chat anytime.
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