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  1. #1
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    Jan 2004
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    Yay for the m/s and sore bb's!!

    Nic

  2. #2
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    Sep 2008
    Manly, Australia
    43

    Good for you! who would have thought that the idea of feeling ill and being in pain was so good? What a crazy process this pregnancy thing is.

  3. #3
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    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    Praying that everything turns out OK. Babies can be very determined little creatures.

  4. #4
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    Apr 2008
    Brisbane
    45

    I am going to bury my head in the sand

    I have decided that I can not cope with any tests or ultra sounds whilst my husband is out of town. So I am going to cancel my bt for the morning and the ultrasound ( second opinion) on Tuesday so that I can just imagine everything is humming along nicely for the week.
    I think it is some form of denial but it should get me throught the wait. I can always keep more positive without any bad news I guess
    Feeling the same as above and very tired, all the right things.

  5. #5
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    Sep 2008
    Manly, Australia
    43

    If that is the best strategy for you, then go for it. I can understand your need to have the support of your DH during this time. Take care of yourself.

  6. #6
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    Oct 2006
    Sydney NSW
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    i think whatever gets you through is the right thing to do hun.

  7. #7
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    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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    hun - thats what helped me this time around, I refused any scans till 12 weeks and only had a couple of BT's to check on the HCG.

    I preferred to sit back, not stress and let my little unit have peace and quiet. Of course we will never really know if this helped at all, but after 2 mc's this little one certainly stuck! (I am sure, deep down, that my attitude in the first 12 weeks had much to do with it).

    Hang in there little one!

  8. #8
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    Mar 2007
    outer South East Melbourne
    2,881

    I am so sorry for your loss. Make sure you take care of each other through this very difficult time.

  9. #9
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    Apr 2008
    Brisbane
    45

    Thank you so much. I am doing well, just concentrating on getting some weight off so that we can have some more luck naturally. This site has been fantastic!!
    Cheers
    T

  10. #10
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    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    Glad you are doing OK and looking forward. sending you all the best