Willow,
I would say that I would feel exactly the same after LTTTC/AC. You invest so much time, effort, emotions etc into creating a beautiful baby that is part of yourself and your husband, and some other people just come along and do it for no other reason than that they just can!

My DH and I were chatting about this the other day, how there are people in our lives that have babies for no particular reason except their cute and awww...people make a fuss over them and you...... then they grow up to be 5,6 and older and the novelty wears off. Disgusting, I know, but we have friends/family like that. It seems like they just pop a kid out but don't really care.

Lots of hugs...in all honesty, I would probably feel the same.

Nic