Willow, I understand exactly how you feel. A friend emailed me the other day to announce that she was pregnant again. She has 3 kids. She had a termination last year (husband didn't think he could cope?????) and a M/C at 12 weeks (blighted ovuum) earlier this year. I felt so angry when I read the email and I don't even know why.
Just rest assured, you are not alone feeling this way.

Love and big hugs,
Debbie

P.S. I am doing well.