Nic Sending you big hugs. Feel free to "whinge" as much as you want. You are entitled to do that as much as anyone else.
I don't know why some people feel the need to compare your circumstances along with someone elses. It really does frustrate me to no end when this happens.
Anyway as you know, everyones experiences are different and no 2 pregnancies are the same. Take care hun and tell her to buzz off