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There saying that ppl are holding off naming there babies until they hear hers
my cousin had her baby yesterday and its my dads bday today who's past ...went and saw my cousins baby today but I think it being dads bday and the kids playing up in hospital I was a little stressed to enjoy it. But he is so cute 7pd.... I don't think dd2 is going to cope what so ever and I'm starting to get a bit scared about it. For some reason she is such a mummies girl.... She hates if anyone touches me or kisses me and yells my mummy.. She even does it too hubby... She goes to child care and I get her baby sat and she socialises .. But she just wants me all the time. I don't think she is going to handle it well. She wouldn't even let me hold the baby for long. I'm wondering how I will seriously cope with 3 children. Or maybe that's a touch of hormones too...I hate them misbehaving when were out. Miss dd 41/2 is starting to get that 5 attitude and miss dd2 is going to go through the 2's...I didn't do that we'll did I
Melster, my Mr5 has the 'tude and Mr(almost)2 is extremely clingy, will scream if DS1 hugs me. DS1 used to be really clingy and jealous as well. Going through him has made me feel ok about DS2 handling this baby
Wish I had chocolate Mel, feel really emotional today & would love comfort food. I know it's hormones & the stress of moving but today I've had enough. Want to cry & hide from the world.
My DD is older than your littlies but I'm still worried about how she will feel sharing me after all this time. Moving in with DP last year took a while for her to adjust too - her & I have lived on our own since she was 2.5 yrs old.
Melster- Sounds like you're describing my DS2 lol. He only wants me and wants me all to himself. Haven't even had the chance of getting him to bond to someone else as XDP moved in for 10 days before I kicked him out and I don't live with DP. He does go to daycare but that also hasn't helped as he is clingy to them and as soon as I am there, he clings straight back to me. And ih the performances he makes when he can't have me and when someone else does. I am glad as he wasn't living with me for most of his first year but has ALWAYS been a mmy's boy, even child services couldn't believe how attached he was at every visit (that was from PND/A/P).
I had another of those pregnancy dreams last night. I had bub last night and she was so well that she would actually take the breast.
tick tok..i ate the whole thing yes i know what you mean about the hormone thing ......
Damprye....maybe we can console each other then ....maybe he is like that because of the seperation? how do you thinik you'll go this time with PND? i had it with DD41/2 for about 6 mths but came good after that..didnt have it with DD2......feel that maybe i have slight depression now..but it could just be the hormones too..its hard to tell
It will be interesting to see how they will go. I'm being optomistic ;-) I'm doing ok so far (mine was perinatal so before and after birth) and I did have it a bit early pregnancy but have been doing much better. I worry a bit with the issues I'm having and the simularities to DS2's pregnancy but I have been making sure I take better care of myself. Doesn't stop the worry but it does help. I also try to make sure I continue to go out, see friends, keep my house somewhat manageable, get up off my ass when I can and get my butt to the OB or hossy when needed and most importantly, I make sure I always find time to spend quality time with my boys and take time away from them when needed.
ill try and be optomistic with ya...but im not sure its working
OMG im so tired its like i have the flu (but havent) you know when youre whole body aches and you cant be bothered lifting youre arms even to type..been having loads of hb and sickie burps in the mouth...YUCK...counting down till 5pm.......2 hrs and 5 minutes
Lol damprye. I have nothing to report except a horrible headache yesterday & today, my boobs feeler smaller & deflated (but I remember that happening a few weeks ago too) & I'm actually back to eating dinner at night - woohoo! Although the thought of eating broccoli & zucchini makes me want to blah.
I'm here & reading just nothing to post.
Everything is going well here.
Passed the GTT, Boo is growing nicely & I'm getting huge(well I feel like a whale)
gtt done yesterday. I ended up not going to work after and still not feeling back to normal. next mw appointment is next Friday so will know the result then.
I am Exhausted! Yes, so exhausted it required a capitol E lol.
I picked up the keys for our new place today & have not stopped. I only did 2 car loads of stuff (little bits & pieces) as DP is away with work & DD is with her dad but just doing that & the constant moving (I have a 9-5 office job) has worn me out. Plus I did a little bit of shopping for the new place......... It was nice to unpack & put things away in peace & without the pressure of getting it all done at once.
I defiantly feel more blah & crampy from being so tired so am planing on ordering in pizza & watching a DVD tonight. A nice "mum & bub" evening. Geez a glass of red would be good
I feel really guilty. A friend was all excited after an u/s which showed a hb and instead of replying all excited, I messaged her back about my concerns of m/c due to the shape of the sac. I told her to rest up and take it easy. I hoped I was wrong because even though it was tear drop shaped, the point was away from the cervix...she started to lose her baby last night :'( This isn't the first time and I know she appreciates my honesty (because that is why she chats to me, I don't feed bull, I tell it how it is) but I syltill feel like maybe I shouldn't have said anything and just let her enjoy the pregnancy as much as she could for as long as it lasted. Like seriously, would you want to know if your baby had an exporation date? I would but I'm not exactly normal. There's not even anything that can be done cos there is no longer a hb. What can I say, what can I do? *sigh* I know the loss isn't my fault and her resting because she knew likely gave the best chance possible but IDK...sometimes its hard to know whether to keep zipped or to let them know
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yes i know what you mean about the hormone thing ......
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