I feel really guilty. A friend was all excited after an u/s which showed a hb and instead of replying all excited, I messaged her back about my concerns of m/c due to the shape of the sac. I told her to rest up and take it easy. I hoped I was wrong because even though it was tear drop shaped, the point was away from the cervix...she started to lose her baby last night :'( This isn't the first time and I know she appreciates my honesty (because that is why she chats to me, I don't feed bull, I tell it how it is) but I syltill feel like maybe I shouldn't have said anything and just let her enjoy the pregnancy as much as she could for as long as it lasted. Like seriously, would you want to know if your baby had an exporation date? I would but I'm not exactly normal. There's not even anything that can be done cos there is no longer a hb. What can I say, what can I do? *sigh* I know the loss isn't my fault and her resting because she knew likely gave the best chance possible but IDK...sometimes its hard to know whether to keep zipped or to let them know
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