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  1. #1
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    Jan 2012
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    absolutely terrified...

    I can totally relate. After the 2nd BO m/c and being told that only after 3 they the fertility specialist would start tests, I was adamant I would go through another.
    Then I became pregnant again. And diagnosed with Thyroid issues, maybe get your levels checked also.
    We were so scared but went for scan at 6 weeks, by then I was already sure I was right (another BO) BUT sure enough a little heart was beating!
    And now as I wrote this, breastfeeding my miracle!
    Have hope and faith is all I can say. And it gets hard, as I wondered all the time while pregnant something going to happen (had 2 bleeds during ) and didn't really connect. I enjoyed being pregnant by the end. And even now it's still hard to not be over protective.
    I wish you well and lots of sticky vibes!

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    Apr 2006
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    I agree entirely with TMS. Just take it one day at a time, without putting any pressure on yourself to feel a particular way or even to feel at all.

    In the meantime, sending quiet congratulations and wishing you a very peaceful and uneventful pregnancy

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    I bit the bullett and made an appt, Monday....I'm assuming blood tests, referral for scan (might ask about them bulk billing it..) etc, etc...
    Thank you ladies, still feels unreal and yet I want to bust into tears at the drop of a hat

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    Aug 2010
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    congratulations.....I can understand how you feel...its completely normal and its probably hormones too....have you told you're partner yet? or is there someone you can talk too?

    There are Drs that bulk bill and will do scans etc...are you on a health care card?

    Let it all sink in

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    yup, dp knows, thats it as of yet (apart from you beautiful ladies) he doesnt cope very well with it either...
    no hcc, dp and I both have own businesses, so ready $$ can be a bit short....