everything will work about just the way it's suppose too and in 9 months you'll have a beautiful bubba to show for it.
Unless you are omniscient, it's best to refrain from these sorts of comments. It doesnt help and can feel insulting if things go wrong.

OP - all you can do is take it one day at a time. There is no rhyme or reason and no way to know if things are ok or not. I've been pessimistic and optimistic during pregnancy, all with the same awful result. I figure, if you're pregnant today, enjoy it as much as you can. Meltdowns are a normal part of pregnancy after loss. By all means cry and feel frightened. But then pick yourself up again and send positive feelings to bub. And enjoy being pregnant for one more day.