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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Dec 2011
    Perth, SOR
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    Oh girls, it's like a roller coaster these weeks, isn't it . From symptoms to none to symptoms again... Stressing out about if there will be a heart beat or not next time in the scan. Sending all of you hugs. Cheshire, give it a couple of hours and I'm sure some symptoms will show up, I had this last week, felt really good, no symptoms whatsoever, then by the end of the afternoon I was exhausted again and had sore boobs... Fingers crossed the symptoms will come back soon.

    Calluna - sending you hugs.

    Damprye - Thanks for your reassurance. I actually found myself crying reading it, I hope you're right! Hope you get something sorted for this arvo and that you'll start feeling better soon! Seeing that you've pas 9 weeks already, hopefully m/s will ease soon! And indeed superwoman comes to mind, like greenslw said. What you've been through in the last few weeks, is huge, and you seem to have come out of it with chin up and so positive! I'm so proud of you!

    Greenslw - Argh 2 pessaries morning and night. I feel sorry for you... I will stop complaining about 1 a day I work with customers and I always admire their babies when someone comes in with one. This lady had a set of twins and I wonder if she guessed, but like I said I'm only slightly bloated and not showing yet at all. Maybe she'll tell me next time she sees me and it's obvious - I knew all along We'll see. Good luck with the family lunch, try and rope in the help of family members, just say you're coming down with something, if you're not ready to share yet!!!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Adelaide
    676

    Calluna I still check for blood and I had DS after mc hope time and talking ease your pain
    Me4 lol I feel the same ppl know guess we can only tell when we break our silence.
    Cheshire it is so hard when we are micro checking for signs I can only talk from my journey and symptoms do fluctuate hang in there
    Damprye hope gig went ok hard when you feel ick but are needed
    Melster hope you can settle I know it's a hard task if its not in your nature pg seems to make it worse for me.
    Me well cranky with DF who at 6 am after DS waking twice for the 3rd night thought it was the right time to inform me DS has me wrapped around his finger. So I'm wide awake after little sleep. Lunch was nice DSS has a great gf who helped lots mother in law is a control freak and keeps telling DS off for things only one more night why don't grand parents realise they can leave that to parents? Bit of doubt in my mind today maybe DF isn't ready for two kids? Bit scared of doing this on my own at some point and what that means........ Sorry for vent......

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    Brisbane, QLD
    5,171

    Cheshire, how are you doing hun?

    Thanks Me4Ever.

    Greenslw. My DF says crap like that sometimes. Makes me so angry. Also have parents/inlaws who think they can tell of my child. Infuriating! You have much empathy from me!

    Melstar - Hope you can settle in soon. Its impossible to relax when you are all over the place.


    Feeling a bit better today. Saw 2 rainbows in the last 2 days. Which is pretty rare for me. Wondered if that was my bub saying hello. Dunno. But its a comforting thought.
    Had a dream that I was bleeding and trying to tell my ex (we were in a relationship in the dream. Weird) that I was pregnant and it was his. And that I was bleeding. All very odd and confusing. There was also a lot of focus on some hand towels. Lol woke up feeling ok though and then had a spew. So feeling slightly reassured by that.

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    Aug 2009
    Western Australia, SOR
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    Calluna- Aren't dreams just horrid? Hugs

    Greenslw- I'd be annoyed too. Its normal to worry about the relationship and the strain of a new baby. No matter what though, it will be ok.

    Me4- I'm glad it helped I wouldn't be able to handle things so well without the help of my friends and you ladies. Also, after the year I had 2011/2012, these last few weeks area lot less dramatic in comparison for me.

    Cheshire- How are you today? If it helps at all, today the only symptoms I have are that of my flu.

    Having a wonderful break from ms today I feel as though that the break makes me feel as if I can handle it when it comes back....lets just see if I still feel like that in the next few days though lol! I made it though one of my gigs and the other got cancelled. One tomorrow and then tafe Tuesday. I'm going to have to figure out how to get more wafers soon I think but trying to ignore the logistics of that for now.

  5. #5
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    Feb 2007
    Wonderland
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    Like crap, it came back last night & all day i've been throwing up.
    I'm finally feeling more human so gonna try some dinner soon.

    Thanks asking ladies xx