Greenslw- It is not until 30weeks that employees must tell their employer about their impending arrival. You have a few more weeks left. Until then, you do not have to feel bad at all. If they hold that against you then that is discrimination as you are following the law still.

Tictoc- It is always hard not to stress. I'm no longer convinced that HcG levels are the way to go if looking for reassurance as it only ever stressed me out (I always have low levels) and has never been able to predict if I'm going to carry to term or miscarry. Next pregnancy I think I will just leave it other than stress further about it.

Dutchess- Oh bugger about DD

Me4- Glad you had a good birthday this year. And just think, next year you get to hold your bub in your arms

AFM- I start seeing a dietician on Thursday so I can start losing weight (well continue but by eating the correct calories and nutrients, not by the m/s which is still going strong). I have also gotten together with a few people from my area to go walking each week. They want once a week but even if I have to go it alone, I want to for 4 times a week. Bub is extremely active which is good but still feels very weird and very off putting when DTD lol. I had one of my friends tell me off for calling my bub "foetus" but I like that belly name. I'm generally more of a facts person than an emotional one. I call my other kids "bogger bum" and the such and I love them to bits so how is this any different?