Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss #8

[kbudgie]

yes ticktoc I have a fear friend who lost a baby at 3 days old so I have been worried the last few months. She was born and immediately they knew she had issues. I always thought something can go wrong at any time but also I can't control it now I am at the stage of checking if he is Ok etc all the time *hugs * you have to believe all will be ok though

milly congratulations on twins that is awesome. Lots of sticky vibes to you xx

[Wrangalove]

milly: congratulations. how exciting!!

ticktoc: i would imagine anyone that has mc'd at any point in their pg will have some level of fear. i'm fearful every day. i'll be 7wks tomorrow and have a doctors appointment on wednesday morning. will be begging for an early scan as you will remember i never saw a hb last time. i am terrified it will happen again.

[me4ever]

*sneaking in*
Massive congrats kbudgie! So exciting! Little boys are so much fun! Enjoy this special time and the awesome cuddles

Ticktoc, I was worried as well, till the last moment. But the chance for positive endings at this stage are much higher than something going wrong. Not long now! Enjoy these weeks before the big event, make sure you get lots of you time, soon it will all be about your little one! It's so worth it though!
*sneaking out*

[Wrangalove]

ok ladies! i'm not one for prays, but i have my first U/S today at 11:30am darwin time to see how far along i really am. i am terrified i'm not going to see anything again. wish me luck. will post up results.

[myturn]

Good luck Wrangalove!!! I'll crossing everything for you xox

[TickToc]

Sending you positive sticky vibes wrangalove xx

[JoeSpratt]

Hoping all the best for you wrangalove xxx

[Wrangalove]

woohoo!! we have a heartbeat!! must have just started beating. about 95bpm. i calculated that i'm 7w3d bubs measured around 6w0d. but my bladder was so full it was squishing my little bean!!! feeling much better about it all so far. thank you all for the well wishes. means a lot to me.

[TickToc]

Very glad to hear!

[JoeSpratt]

Grow little bean grow! All the best wrangalove xxx

[kbudgie]

yay little bean xx

[Wrangalove]

thank you all. i feel so much more relaxed. my DP was able to be there to see the little flicker as well. but we are still keeping it hush until we are past week 12.

[kbudgie]

thank you all. i feel so much more relaxed. my DP was able to be there to see the little flicker as well. but we are still keeping it hush until we are past week 12.

when do you have your next scan? g L ad you had hubby there xx

[Wrangalove]

thank you. next scan will be 12wks. now i can sit back and relax. the first hurdle has been passed. will definately keep you all posted.

[Lilliansmummy]

Hi everyone, I dont pop into this one much, but tonight i thought i would. Im 15 weeks today, still suffering MS and know everything is ok....so why am I thinking i need to save money incase i need to pay for cremation and memorials and stuff??i must be mad!! Its coming up to the 18 week mark where we lost Lillian....We were so unprepared money wise and Im so use to loss that Im planning my pays around saving for a death.
Does anyone else do this or is it just im going loopy??

[TickToc]

Oh Lillian'smummy having never experienced a late loss I don't know what to say but I would think your feelings at this time would be normal given the circumstances. Can you contact a grief support group & maybe have a talk with someone, debrief? Hugs & best wishes for you, I hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well & you get beautiful baby cuddles at the end xxx

[kbudgie]

lilliansmummy biggest hugs hon.i think I would be feeling the same if I had a late loss. I hope you can talk to someone to help you through xx

[Wrangalove]

mine is over :-(