Thought I would pop my head in as I have just had a bpf after a 3rd miscarriage at 5weeks the start of Jan - Af was late, I did a poas and got a BFP, then 3 days later did another with a BFP, then another 2 days, did a digital test that said not pregnant and AF came 2 days after that.
I had a funny cycle this month and o'd late and got my first bfp on Tuesday. I did another test yesterday which was bfp and then one this morning (just to check cos I am paranoid) which was really faint, so silly me, got the last digital one I was saving (they are from the UK and tell you how many wks after ov you are) and it came up Not Pregnant again - silly silly me.
Now I am really upset and scared, actually terrified that it's all happening again. The first poas were First Response Early which can pick up 12.5mgu, but the digital is 50mgu so here I am in tears, can't get to see the doc until Friday next week due to the holiday(s).
The thing is, I felt pregnant before I got the first BFP - massive and tender watermelons, vague nausea throughout the day, creamy cm and I still feel that way so I am trying to stay positive but it's proving very hard indeed.
Charlie cat - Don't beat yourself up sweetie, when you want something so bad, of course you are going to test.
My advice, try to put all that worry and doubt out of your mind... I know its hard. The more sensitive test you did picked up a BFP.
So for the weekend, just sit with that wonderful knowledge and joy that you got a BFP, it is such a precious feeling ( well apart from the symptoms... blah, hope your nausea is enough to keep you happy and not too much to stop you from eating chocolate).
Go gently...... sending lots of positive sticky vibes your way.
Audax snuggles - only 4 hours now. good luck.....big HCG vibes.
I have to wait out the long weekend! My results didn't come through when they were supposed to - GRRRRR! Will be going back to my old pathology friends next week.
CharlieCat - I wouldn't be too worried. If your result was, say 13 on Tuesday, it would have shown up on your FR. With 48 hours doubling time, it wouldn't have reached 50 yet, so is showing up not pregnant. Good luck, hun, we're all here no matter what.
Dory - glad your procedure went well. Do you have to wait for any more results, or can you (try) and breathe a small sigh of relief yet?
HPL - you're gonna have to move over at the toilet bowl, because my MS is back again too! All in all, out of the past 91 days, I have had four days without vomiting, but they still have had nausea! And my week of eating normally is now over Oh and lurv that you have a new ring tone!!
Emma - I don't like hearing MS stories like that! no no no! How did your u/s go?
Audax - I have been having some wierd dreams too. They say it happens with pg, but I haven't heard any reasons why? I had one about flying pig aliens the other night. In it I was scared sh..less, and even when I woke up, but then I realised what I had been dreaming about, and feeling frightened about and I just felt like an idiot! LOL
Sparkles - I have been thinking about a doppler too. Only thing is I think I would wear it 24/7 and never take it off!!
Hello CharlieCat. I am a POAS person too, and I hate that different tests give different results. Good luck and I hope it truly is a nice and sticky BFP.
AFM - well, I am not too sure what is going on. I just don't seem to feel much going on in there at all. surely by now I should be feeling something? I mean I feel a "twinge" like a pulling sensation, but have been told that is a stretching growing everything getting bigger feeling. And if I stand up after slouching down on the lounge and stand up the wrong way, I can give my self a stich, but I have really only felt "movement" that I know of twice. And am now getting kind of worried, because shouldn't I be feeling it by now? I don't have my next scan until 17 April (I'll be 21 and a bit weeks) and am now panicking that they'll tell me that the baby has long since died. It doesn't help that I have had a couple of days where I have found that I have done too much, and then been a complete right off the next day. I've even had DH put his ear to my abdomen to try and hear the heart beat, but he can only ever hear my normal abdo noises. I guess I am just having a bout of the pessimistics, and need to vent. Hopefully it will all be me just worrying over nothing. But just out of curiosity, should I be feeling movement and if so, how much, how often? I wish I could just relax and enjoy this......
Milly5 dont let yourself be worried by not having felt movements just yet. I only just felt my first tiny movement last week at around 19 weeks but as i say it was so small and could only feel it coz i was lying completely still. They say that in first pregnancys its normal not to feel anything untill after 20 weeks so im sure that everything will be just fine. Good luck with your scan on the 17th. Audax bugger about having to wait the long weekend for your results. If your anything like me that must be so painful coz im extremely impatient with things like that Charliecat welcome hun. Have you tested again since? Keeping everything crossed for you that it is a BFP. Sparkles YAY on feeling the flutters isnt it just the best, i felt them for the first time last week too and its very exciting. HPL wow you sound very busy, you must be exhausted, im tired just working full time. So cute about the heartbeat as your tone on your phone, i would love to do that.
Hello to everyone else i have missed i hope you are going well and growing nicely AFM things are going well, i have my 20 week ultrasound this friday and im so excited. Im also quite scared but i just keep telling myself that everything will be fine. I just cant wait know if i have a pink or blue bundle on board Will be sure to let you all know. Started feeling small movements last week too so that is quite reassuring in itself
Take care all
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