Hey ladies! sorry i dont have that much time but i will come back and do some more persies
i jsut want to say thank you to Milly for the kind words. Likd Dory said somethings in life are honestly incomprehesible until they happen to you. I always knew that bad things sometimes happened to babies but i never knew they could happen to my Babies.
Kyarna was born at 18 weeks so in WA she was actually concidered a miscarriage. We didnt get a birth Certificate or a death certificate. we were not able to have a formal funeral and every time the Ob spoke about our little girl he reminded us that she was a "baby" she was a fetus ( i think that was the hardest part.) but i did give birth to her. i did labour for 10 hours and i felt sooooo ripped off that she was not recognised. I told my DH that i dont even want a scan until after 20 weeks this time because if anything happens then we will get to recoginse this bub. sounds totaly stupid but it is how i felt at the time... doubt i will be able to last another 13 weeks without a scan now tho lol
the way i think of it tho is taht every single little angel lost is a life and they all deserve to be recognised no matter how far along you were.

sorry i know its probably way off track lol but once i get started sometimes i forget were i was going lol

anyway like i said i will come back later!!
Bobbie XOXO