Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss June 2010

[luna moth]

woohoo Tegam for 3 sleeps til scan! Yaaaaay! It's weird, that feeling at 12 weeks, do you reckon? Liek you know you've hit a milestone, but until the scan, you kinda haven't? Both times, I have loved the quiet achievement of it.

milly - my birthday is September 17th. It is a GREAT day to be born. 10th is also quite good really. 10/9/10. That would be a great birth date.

I am SO tired! Slowly catching up on the housework I couldn't do while spewy. Can't quite face cleaning the oven though... might wait til mat leave for that. 5 weeks to go!

[possum magic]

Hi everyone, sorry but not feeling up to persies. Still bleeding heavily and have had a number of clots now (sorry if TMI). Dr was able to see a clot on my scan earlier this week (away from where baby is) so it is possible i suppose that that is what is passing now but i think it's far more likely that i have miscarried. I won't know for sure until i see my OB on Wed. I don't see any point in going earlier. I'm hoping that if i give it a bit more time it will be over one way or the other; either the m/c will be complete and i can move on or the bleeding will stop and baby will be fine. I just can't bear this 'in between' of feeling doomed but baby still being there (if it's all just going to finish anyway, like last time). So i'm hoping that if i wait til Wed it will have reached some sort of resolution.

Dory, think i'll hold off on that ticker a bit longer after all

I feel like i don't want to post too much and bring everyone down so i'll let you know how it goes on Wednesday but maybe just lurk until then.

Mummy of 4: thanks for sharing your experience. It's good to know that some bleeding can be ok in the end, even if it goes on for a bit.

Good luck to everyone having scans the next few days.

[Hope.Positive.Love]

possum magic: my heart goes out to you sweetie... I have everything humanly possibly crossed for you, this could be some common bleeding and nothing at all like mo4... I know it's hard right now but try and stay positive, have all your support people around you and try not think of the worst...

We are all here for you, you post whatever you want whenever you want, we have all been there before and we will support you no matter what....

All my love and support.... xoxoxox

[Tegam]

Hi everyone, sorry but not feeling up to persies. Still bleeding heavily and have had a number of clots now (sorry if TMI). Dr was able to see a clot on my scan earlier this week (away from where baby is) so it is possible i suppose that that is what is passing now but i think it's far more likely that i have miscarried. I won't know for sure until i see my OB on Wed. I don't see any point in going earlier. I'm hoping that if i give it a bit more time it will be over one way or the other; either the m/c will be complete and i can move on or the bleeding will stop and baby will be fine. I just can't bear this 'in between' of feeling doomed but baby still being there (if it's all just going to finish anyway, like last time). So i'm hoping that if i wait til Wed it will have reached some sort of resolution.

I feel like i don't want to post too much and bring everyone down so i'll let you know how it goes on Wednesday but maybe just lurk until then.

I understand that you would like it to be over one way or the other on wednesday. I think that this in the middle bit must be the hardest time! Please please please dont not post, you arent bringing us all down. Isnt this exactly what this thread is for?
Huge hugs and Hoping for good news on wednesday!